When finding the right gay sex therapist I’ve learned that it doesn’t matter what qualifications your writing assistant has, but how well they work with you. It can sometimes feel like talking to them is like talking to a friend or family member.
And if you’re looking for a professional gay sexologist, it can be even more difficult, so if you live in a small town or a place that’s not well-known for being open-minded, don’t worry – technology can help you out. Here’s how…

Pride Counseling is the best place to find a gay sex therapist.
For finding the best gay sex therapist we, here at PsychologyHelp, highly recommend Pride Counseling.
They specialize all their services in providing mental health to the LGBT community and have found some very skilled sex therapists on their team.
Many gay couples have had their sex life improved with their assistance.
When starting a new project it’s important to know who you are and what you’re looking for. Answer a few questions about yourself here – typical stuff, like your age & mental state, but also your sexual identity or gender.
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Why is it the best option?
- All of our counselors are qualified, experienced, and professional. Our team is made up of psychologists, clinical social workers, marriage counselors with masters or doctorate degrees.
- All the therapists on the site either identify as LGBTQA themselves or understand it incredibly well-meaning you won’t have to spend time explaining it. Not only will they know all about Grinder and HRT – they’ll be knowledgeable in identity, community, and non-discrimination law.
- You can choose the method of therapy that would work best for you. Either live chats, phone calls, or even video conferences.
- You can sign up anonymously with a nickname to protect your privacy. With the combination of professionally recorded phone sessions and a nickname, your counselor doesn’t even need to know your identity.
- Whether you’re on Pacific time or Atlantic, we have counselors that work around the clock and will cater to your specific needs.

Pricing
At PrideCounseling, you pay between 40 to 70 dollars per week, which is billed monthly. Read more about online sex therapy.
Another option for a gay therapist – Regain
Regain is a couple-oriented service that has a similar offering to Pride Counseling, but with a gay sexologist and two clients in mind.
Pros:
- All of our counselors are experienced with marriage and couples counseling. They’ve seen and heard it all and you can be sure that nothing will come as a surprise to them.
Cons:
- Honestly, Regain doesn’t have a focus on the LGBT community specifically so you’ll probably need to look around. But they do have a list of several counselors on their page, as well as information on LGBTQ issues.
- Regain doesn’t yet have the option for a three-way video conference, but you and your counselor can still be in the same location if you need to during your session.
As a side note, if you’re in doubt about your gender identity, online therapy can help.
Pricing
Regain uses a similar pricing format as PrideCounseling – 40 to 70 dollars per week that are billed monthly.
In Conclusion
Finding a good therapist shouldn’t be hard – you get to search by keyword, zip code, or near you. Whether you’re looking for an LGBT gay sex therapist for your same-sex partners to work on things together or separately, there should be at least one reliable LGBT gay sex therapist close